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Giving Children an Allowance

Giving children and allowance has many benefits.

  1. Teaches money management skills. Don't just hand your children money. Make sure you teach them what it means to save. Teach them to pay a 10% tithe and to place 10-20% away for savings. Help your child determine a goal for their savings. For example, if there is a new video game they want explain to them how much money they need to get that game. Place a picture of it somewhere where they can be reminded that that is what they are saving for. Teaching these skills when they are young can help them avoid money problems as adults.
  2. Avoid having them ask you for money all the time. When your children have their own money to spend and they ask you for something from the store you can just remind them they have their own money.
  3. Teaches children the value of money. How often do your children see you handle actual money? I know mine only see me with credit cards and checks. Giving children cash helps them see that when it is gone it is gone.

So, when should you start giving an allowance, how much should you give, and  how should you do it?

 

Most children learn about money at school when they are around 6 years old. At this age they can better understand the concepts associated with money management.  But you can start teaching the concept of paying for goods as early as 3 years.

 

The amount to give varies from family to family. I have heard half of their age in dollars or a dollar per year of their age. Some families can afford more while others need to stick with less. Do what is best for your family. Older children may be responsible for buying their own personal toiletry items so make sure the allowance covers the cost of those items and leaves a little extra money for spending.

 

How often you give the allowance depends on the age of the child. Young children should be paid weekly while older children can be paid bi-weekly or monthly to teach long term budgeting.

 

I personally believe you should not tie allowances to chores, at least not the chores that need to be done just because your child is a part of the family. You shouldn't pay your child to clean up the toys they left out, make their bed, put clothes away, etc.  It's better to remove a privilege if they fail to do those chores. But,  make a list of extra chores they can do that pay like, raking the leaves, wiping the base boards, dusting the blinds, etc.

 

Remember, it is better to start an allowance when the child is younger than to do it when they are a teenager because you can solidify good financial habits early.

 

Wants vs. Needs

It's the question I ask myself everytime I go shopping. I pick up an item for purchase and then ask, "Do I need this item or do I just want this item". To help me answer I think through a couple of other questions.
  • Do I need this to live/survive?
  • Do I have something at home that can provide the same function?
  • Do I have to have it now or can it wait until later?
  • Why am I buying this item?
  • If replacing an item, can I fix the item I already have for cheaper than buying a new one?
I believe we all really know what our needs are but when there is a sale that is almost too good to be true it is sooooo hard to pass it up. I am guilty of compulsive buying when it comes to those good deals. So is my husband. Here is our most recent example. My husband has been wanting an air compressor for sometime now and everytime he goes to a home improvement store he checks the prices to see if by some chance there is one we can afford. I don't know exactly why we "need" one but apparently we can sure use one around the house. Well, last week he was at a store and checked the prices and low and behold, one was on sale for 50% off the original price. It turns out the store had it priced wrong but he got the advertised price anyway. It was our luck. Now, did we really have the money for this purcase? No, we did not but the price will never be that low ever (we got it below wholesale). So, because the sale was so good we ended up making a purchase I feel we didn't really need to make. However, I have a very happy and excited husband.
 
Usually by asking myself the above questions and giving honest answers I save myself some money. The point I'm trying to make is, if you don't "need" it don't buy it. And, if it is something you can't use immediatly there is no need in buying it. See how you can save money by distinguishing wants vs. needs.
 
How do you distinguish your wants from needs?

Quality vs. Quantity vs. Price

When you go shopping you always make sure you are getting the best deal right? One way to make sure you are getting the best deal is by comparing the quality, the quantity, and the price of items.

  • Quality- You want to purchase things that are going to last or function the way you expect them to. Several years ago I was at a Pampered Chef (PC) show and saw the garlic press demo and was in awe. I didn't want to spend $16 on a press and thought I could find one cheaper at Wal-Mart. I found one that looked cute and the price was right at $5. I purchased this press and took it home anxious to use it. I put my garlic in the press peel and all (the PC one worked with the peel on) and squeezed. A few drops trickled out. This press worked nothing like the PC one. I was very disappointed and went and ordered the PC one. The PC one was built to last and it performs the way I want/expect it to. Had I bought it to begin with I could have saved $5.
  • Quantity- Sometimes when you buy in bulk you can save money. If you are buying bulk in food make sure you can actually use the amount before it goes bad otherwise that is wasting money. Sometimes all you really need is one of an item and buying more than one is a waste. Find a friend you can divide a bulk purchase with and share the savings.
  • Price- Always compare the price per ounce, lb, item of the items you want to buy. Then consider the quality and quantity as well to determine if it is a great buy for you.

Ways to Save Money at the Grocery Store

Using coupons is the obvious way to save money at the grocery store. But there are some other ways too.
  • Never shop when you are hungry. This leads to impulsive buys which are usually high priced convenience items.
  • Shop from a list and stick to the list.
  • Avoid shopping when tired because this leads to purchases of food with high sugar content and lots of carbohydrates.
  • Foods that are more expensive tend to be at eye/chest level. Look higher or lower on the shelves for the best deal.
  • Compare the price per unit (oz, lb, fl.oz) instead of the overall price.
  • For meat, compare the price per serving instead of the price per pound.
  • When you see the sign that says 5 for $5 do you have to buy all five items to get the discount or is each item priced at just $1? If there is a minimum purchase it will usually say. Many stores advertise this way to get you to buy more. If you don't really need 5 of that item then you can save money just by buying 1 or 2.
  • Some grocery stores will price match. Wal-Mart is great at this. If you take in the ad from another store they will honor the lower price.
  • Shop at larger stores because you will be able to get a better price than say a convenience store.

These are just a few ideas and I'm sure there are many more. How do you save money at the grocery store?

Establishing Financial Rules

If you find you are always arguing with your partner over spent money then it is time you establish some financial rules. It varies from family to family but my husband and I have found two that work really well or us.
  1. Purchase Amount Limit Without Consultation. This is the amount of money either one of you can spend without discussing the purchase with the other person first. You could create a daily, weekly, or monthly amount.  This does not include necessities like groceries. Obviously, the smaller your overall budget is for your house, the smaller this number will be. We have a really small income to work with so ours is around $20. Anytime there is something that my husband or I want to buy that isn't a necessity and that costs $20 or more we run it past each other.
  2. 24-Hour Rule. For purchases requiring a significant amount of money we always wait 24-hours before we make the purchase. During this time we each take a side, one pro and one con (even if we are both for it), and we each lay out our side. We look at all the positives and negatives so we can make a more educated decision. This rule also applies well for any impulse purchases. If there is something you find that you just have to have, wait 24 hours to see if you still "need" it. Most of the time you don't. Beware: Sales people hate this rule, especially those working off commission. I had a telemarketer tell me how stupid a rule that was. It is actually a smart rule if you are trying to stay out of debt.

These are the 2 rules that work for us. You may have more or different versions of ours. The key is to find what works best for you.

Creating a Holiday Budget

The best part of holiday shopping is picking out gifts for everyone on your list. The worst part is when January comes along with the bills and you realize you over spent. One way to avoid the worst part is to create and stick to a holiday budget.
Step 1: Create a budget book. Add lined paper, dividers, and a zipper pocket (pens and pencil pouch) to a 3 ring binder. The paper is for taking notes and keeping track of things. The dividers are to separate lists or budget years. The zipper pocket is to hold all of your receipts.
 
Step 2: List Expenses. Make a list of each person you need to buy a gift for. This includes family, friends, teachers, and co-workers. Don't forget to make a list of other holiday expenses like: greeting cards, gift wrap, decorations, baking supplies for cookie trays etc.
 
Step 3: Set Limits. Evaluate what you spent last year or estimate what you spent last year and determine where you need to cut back and where you need a little more. Maybe you went way overboard with the cookie trays but needed a little more money for gifts. Make adjustments where necessary and then place an amount on everything. For example, $5 for teacher gifts, $10 per co-worker, $20 per extended family member, $50 for decorations. Maybe this year you can cut back on the number of cards you send out and send e-cards instead. Many people throw away the cards after the season anyway.

 The most important thing is to do what is best for you. Don't compare your budget to someone else’s because everyone has different ideas and needs. Once you have your budget set make sure you keep track of everything you spend. You may go over on something but under on others. Make adjustments where necessary. Follow through with your budget to make sure there are no surprises come January.

Money Saving Tips for Halloween

Do you find yourself every Halloween spending oodles of money on your child’s costume or on the goodies to hand out to the trick or treaters? I don't know about you but it really irks me to spend $15 or more (I'm really cheap when it comes to buying something that will only be used for one night or maybe a couple of dress up times) on a costume just to have the price slashed the day after Halloween to 75% off. So, every year I vow to buy the costumes for the next year the day after Halloween. You will also notice the price of the candy slashed the day after Halloween. Candy has so much sugar and preservatives in it that if you buy it when it is on clearance and put it in a cool/dry location it will last until next Halloween.  Doing this you can cut your costs by at least half.

 

Some other ideas for saving money on Halloween:

  • Do a costume swap with friends and neighbors. Trade your previously warn costumes for someone else’s costume.
  • Find costumes or items to create costumes at thrift stores. My cousin used a table cloth to sew a costume for her child. The cost of the table cloth as 50 cents compared to the fabric at $2 or more per yard.
  • Buy decorations the day after Halloween for the next year. If you buy a little bit at a time, eventually you will have collected quite the display.

What are some ways you save money on Halloween?

Ways to Save Money by Saving Energy

The U.S. Department of Energy says consumers spend 6-12% of their income on utilities. For many, winter means higher energy bills. If you find yourself dreading the upcoming cold season and the increased cost of energy try some of these tips and start saving money on your energy bill.

 

  • Light bulbs- Replace incandescent light bulbs with compact fluorescent light bulbs (CFL's). CFL's last 10 times longer than incandescent bulbs and can save up to $60 in electricity per light over their lifetime.
  • Unplug- Appliances and electronics that have a clock, operate by remote controls, and chargers are vampires sucking energy even when they are turned off. 40% of energy is consumed from these items when they are turned off. Unplug them when they are not in use, like when you are sleeping, or get a Smart Power Strip.
  • Water Heater- Insulate your water heater if it was built before 2004. Wrap it in a Thermwell blanket and you'll save 10% annually on your water heating bill.
  • Furnace- Service the furnace every 2 years and you'll save 10% on heating bills.
  • Turn Down the Heat- According to the Alliance to Save Energy, every degree you turn down the heat in the winter you take 5% off of your bill. Get an Energy Star programmable thermostat (~$70) and it will save more than twice its price in a year by adjusting the temperature automatically for when you are gone or in bed.
  • Washer/Dryer- Save 50% of the energy you use on heating water by setting your washing machine to cold. Set your dryer to moisture sensor and cut energy use by 15%.
  • Stop Drafts- Don't heat the outside world. Block drafts with weather stripping and save $30 per year.
  • Lower water Temperature- Set water heater at 120 degrees Fahrenheit. Before you do this though make sure your dishwasher has a heat boost because the water needs to be 140 degrees to clean properly.
  • Timer Lights- Install timer lights or motion lights for exterior lighting and in rooms you use occasionally.
  • Full Loads- Make sure to fill your washing machine and dishwasher up before you run them. It takes the same amount of energy to run the wash whether it is full or not. Airdry your dishes and clothes too.

Individually these things might not be a lot of savings but if you do them all the savings really can add up. What are some of the ways your family tries to save on energy?

Mystery Shopping

Last week I told you how to make a little extra cash by doing paid surveys. Today I want to tell you a little bit about Mystery Shopping.
 
Despite what the name sounds like, mystery shoppers do not where a trench coat and sunglasses to hide their appearance. A mystery shopper is someone who gets paid to go to a particular store, restaurant, or other location and be a customer. It's all about evaluating customer service as well as the cleanliness of the location. As with paid surveys you will find middlemen wanting to charge you a fee to have access to the companies who hire mystery shoppers. There is no need to pay this fee because you can find the companies on your own just by searching for them and in a lot of cases, the sites that charge a fee are scams.
 
If you are interested in becoming a mystery shopper I would start by going to the Mystery Shopping Providers Association website. There is a listing of legitimate companies as well as training. Some companies ask if you are MSPA certified. You do not have to be certified to be a mystery shopper but in some cases you will be chosen first or be paid more if you are certified. Volition is also a good place to see a free listing of mystery shopping companies.
 
So here are some basic facts you should know.
  • You cannot make a living mystery shopping. You can however, make some extra cash and be reimbursed for purchases.
  • Some shops require you to purchase something. If this is the case, you will either be reimbursed for the purchase or you will be required to return the item to evaluate the return process.
  • When you purchase items, always use a credit card. This will ensure that you can get your money back in a timely manner when you have to make a return.
  • Most of the companies will pay/reimburse you via a check or a PayPal account. Some require direct deposit only. I would avoid the direct deposit ones unless you have a completely separate account not tied in with your personal account.
  • For most companies the payments/reimbursements are made at the end of the following month of your completed shop. For example, if you complete a shop on Sept 15 you won't get paid for it until the end of October. This is to give both companies involved time to verify your shop.
  • Most require you to have a digital camera to take pictures of your receipts or specific things at the location.
  • A scanner is definitely helpful for scanning in receipts but isn't always required.
  • You are notified of shops that are available via email. Some you can self assign and others you apply for and they let you know if you have been assigned.
  • Read all of the information about the company and how the shop is to be performed. Incomplete shops or shops that are incorrect you will not be paid for.

If you live on a tight budget, mystery shopping could be an excellent way to get the "shopping bug" out of your system or to just go out and have a free dinner. Shops include, restaurants, entertainment, retail, banking, apartments, and hotels.  I've been mystery shopping for a couple of months now and am having fun with it. I even get to bring my husband along sometimes. If you have more questions, please feel free to ask.

Getting Paid to Take Surveys

I don't know about you but with the cost of living these days I'm finding it hard to meet everyday needs much less spend money on the fun stuff. I was on the internet one day looking for ways to make money but still be able to stay at home with my kids. My search took me to Dr. Laura's website where she has articles and ideas for ways to make money at home. One click led to another and I found a website that you can pay a fee too and have access to all of the companies out there who either pay you cash or reward you points redeemable for merchandise. This website and others like it are the middlemen.  They have done all of the work listing the survey companies so you don't have to do the search yourself.  You can find all of the paid survey sites on your own but it takes time to find the legitimate ones. Beware of sites that promise you will make thousands of dollars because frankly, you can't. Getting paid to take surveys is not a way to make a good income but it can provide you with extra income. After reading all of the information at the middleman website I decided to give it a try, they had a 60 day money back guarantee if I didn't like it. I figured it was worth my time to pay the money instead of search for the sites. I did make back my initial investment within the first month so I'm going to let them keep my initial investment. This site also provided me with a list of all of the Mystery Shopping companies out there but I will address mystery shopping next week.

 

If you want to give paid surveys a try, here are some tips to help you out.

  • Decide if you want to use a middleman to help you find the site. I used Survey Scout
  • Check out the survey police to see a list of the best and worst survey sites and read what others have to say about them.
  • Set up a separate email account to direct all survey related traffic to. Beware, signing up at the wrong sites will create a lot, I mean a lot of spam. These sites have listings for special offers and a lot of questions like, would you be interested in....... If you come across these survey sites and want to participate in their surveys but don't want the spam then click "no" to every offer.
  • Some survey sites pay you to participate in free trial offers for products and services and then take a survey about the product/service. These can pay well but beware that many of the services are free only for a limited time. Keep track of the name of the product/service, when you sign up, when you need to cancel by before getting charged, and how to cancel.
  • Of the sites that pay cash, make sure to get payment in the form of a check or PayPal payment. Never give out your bank number for direct deposit.
  • Some sights have a minimum amount you need to achieve before you can cash out. Know what these minimums are.
  • Be aware that it can take up to 8 weeks to receive your payment once you "cash out."

I hope to pay for a majority of Christmas with the payments I receive from taking paid surveys. If you have some time while the kiddos are napping or while you watch TV you might want to consider this as a way to make some "fun money".

 

Debt Reduction and Elimination

"There are only two types of people who deal in interest--those who understand it and those who do not understand it. Those who understand it, collect it. Those who do not understand it, pay it." -Deseret News 1/9//93

Debt

There are several kinds of debt but most fall into these categories: consumer debt, educational debt, vehicle debt, and home mortgage. In June of 2007 the total US consumer debt, not including mortgages, was 2.46 trillion dollars. If you are one of the many Americans in debt, the time is now to get out of debt and find financial freedom. One way to get out of debt is to contact a company who specializes in eliminating debt. However, expect to pay them some money for this service. This may be a great method if you are so over your head in debt that you don't know what else to do. I recommend getting out of debt on your own by following these steps.
 
First, perform a little "plastic surgery" and cut up your credit cards. You might wish to keep one for emergencies but make sure it is only used for that. I have a friend who placed her credit card in a bag of water and then placed it in the freezer to ensure it was used only for emergencies. Only spend money that falls into your budget parameters and pay with cash. If you can't pay cash then don't buy it.
 
Next make a list of all of your current debt and include information like; total amount due, minimum monthly payment, and the interest rate. Now call all of the companies and ask them if they can give you a lower interest rate. Most people qualify for a rate lower than what they are getting so you need to ask.
 
The last thing to do is create a debt elimination plan/chart. I've created a sample on you can view here. Here is how it works. List your debts starting from the smallest one first to the largest one.  Every month pay at least the minimum amount due. Once you pay off your smallest debt, add that minimum payment to the 2nd smallest debt. Once the 2nd debt is paid off apply that payment towards the next debt and so on. It is a snowball effect. The sum you pay towards a single debt increases but the total amount you pay towards all your debt remains the same. By following this method you will get out of debt faster. Once all your debt is paid off you can then place the total monthly payments you were using to pay off debt into your savings account. If you need this clarified more please ask and I will explain it. Looking at the sample chart here will help out too.
 
If you currently do not have debt congratulations! Please share with us how your family stays out of debt.

Creating a Personal Budget

For some the word “budget” is a dirty word that evokes negative feelings. Those who understand budgeting know that it is a word that can equal financial freedom.  So, if you don’t already have a personal budget, here is what you need to do.

Figure out what your entire monthly income is. Include paychecks, bonus, tips, and any interest you may make. From this figure out what your yearly income is. Now you know what you have to work with.  Creating a budget is much more enjoyable if you have a goal in mind.  Maybe you want to save money for a down payment on a house, or a family vacation, or maybe it is just to eliminate some debt. So, create a goal and think of it as you work through your budget.

Now you need to make a list of all of your fixed expenses, anything that gets paid monthly. These are things like rent/mortgage, car payment, church/charity contributions, medical insurance, dental insurance, garbage, gas, electricity, natural gas, phone, water, etc.  Then you need to make a list of all your occasional expenses. Occasional expenses are the things that come less frequently than monthly but are paid on a regular basis. Examples are: car insurance, car registration, home insurance, life insurance, magazines, property taxes, vehicle inspections, etc. Don’t forget to include money for b-day presents, vacations, and Christmas. Then there are those wonderful variable expenses: Car maintenance/repair, dry cleaning, Home repairs, school fees, pictures, prescriptions, stamps, tires, yard supplies, etc.

Once you have all of these things listed, create a practice budget. Write down how much you propose to spend on each item. At the end of the month record how much you actually spent and compare the two.  Did you spend more or less in certain areas? Was it feasible?  Adjust your budget accordingly and now you are ready to start saving for your goal.
You can view a budget worksheet here. You can also download budget templates of all kinds from here.

Coupon clipping

Piggy Bank

With the cost of gas these days we all need to save money anyway we can.  The use of coupons when buying groceries is one way to save a little money.  I used to subscribe to a newspaper just so I could have access to all of the ads and coupons there but I got so tired of having to sort through all of the stuff I didn’t need that I canceled my subscription.  I have recently discovered that I can get all of the coupons I need as well as all of the ads I’m interested in from online sources.

 http://www.eversave.com/

At this website you can print grocery coupons, department store coupons, and get coupon codes for discounts at online stores. 

 www.bettycrocker.com

This is a great sight that offers coupons for groceries as well as recipes and how to lessons.

 www.memolink.com

Memolink has tons of codes for great savings when you shop online. Memolink members earn points for visiting Websites, sampling products, playing trivia, completing marketing research surveys and making online purchases. Points can be exchanged for cash or gift cards, or donated to a charitable organization. It is free to join.

 www.couponcabin.com

CouponCabin has printable coupons for non grocery stores like JCPenney, Toys R Us, and Baskin Robbins just to name a few. They also have lots of code for discounts in online shopping.

 If there is a particular grocery store you like to shop at most have a place where you can view their current ads and sign up to have them sent to your email address.

These are a few of my favorites. There are so many out there, please share with us the ones you have found.