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Nut and Marshmallow Popcorn

My husband's Aunt makes this every year at Christmas time. Since we couldn't be with her this year I made my own. It would be perfect for your New Years Eve party too!
 
Nut and Marshmallow popcorn

Mix together in a large bowl:

6 qt. popped corn                           

3-4 c. marshmallows

2 c. pecans or walnuts                   

1/2 c. gummed drops

     In a saucepan, mix together and stir while bringing to a boil:

1 C. butter                                        

1/2 C. corn syrup

1 1/2 c. sugar

Boil for 3 minutes. Remove from heat, and then add 1 tsp vanilla. Wait until cooled a little, and then pour over popcorn mixture. Cool on cookie sheet sprayed with vegetable oil. Caution: do not over-stir.

Tips for Happy Roadtrips with Young Children

Many families travel during the Holiday season to visit family and friends. Long car trips can be difficult if you are traveling with small children. I have 4 children under 8 years old and have experience with long road trips (14-24 hours) with my children. Here are a few of my suggestions when traveling with young children.

·         Snacks: Pack plenty of snacks that are easily passed around and eaten in the car or plane. With pre-sliced apples and baby carrots, there is no need to just eat junk food either. You might want to purchase special treats that the kids have never had before. Make sure to pack paper towels and hand wipes.

 
·         Eat meals at parks or places that have children’s play areas. Make sure you a lot time for the kids to run around and play. They need to get their energy out.
 
·         Movies: I know something is lost when the trip is spent watching movies; seeing the scenery, enjoying the journey, fighting kids, questions like “are we there yet”.  But, having a DVD player in the car or a personal DVD player can make the trip go faster for the kids. Plus when they ask “how much longer” you can put it in their terms “When Shrek is over” or “by the time you watch 2 more movies we’ll be there”.
 
·         Music: Bring along music that your children like too. We love rocking to vegetales.
 
·         Activities/games/toys: Search and find books are great for older children. Coloring books are also good and a clipboard provides a good hard surface for them to write on in their laps. Car bingo is also a fun one. I have a friend who buys little $1 toys and wraps them up and every couple of hours she gives the kids a toy to unwrap.
 
·         Plan for the potty breaks. I have a daughter who refuses to use public bathrooms if there is any sort of smell or mess in them. As you can imagine it makes it hard to find a gas station with a clean enough restroom.  So, I bring sanitizing wipes and maybe air freshener with me to make the bathroom acceptable to her. You could also pack a child’s portable potty with you too.
 
·         If you have time, enjoy the journey. Stop at tourist places along the way and see what small towns and cities have to offer.
 
·         Drive during your child’s sleep time. If you have a child who can sleep in the car then consider driving at night or during nap times. My sister has 6 children so she and her husband choose to drive through the night because there are fewer potty breaks, arguing, and traffic.  I have tried this method and the kids do travel better but it was misery for my husband and I. We do not drink caffeine so it was hard for us to stay awake. However, if you are a good night driver it might be a good method for you.

Italian Chicken Filling

This recipe is so tasty. This filling can be used inside a Bistro twist or a crescent wreath.
 
Italian Chicken Filling
 

1 cup chopped cooked chicken

½ cup diced red bell pepper

¼ cup snipped fresh basil leaves

¼ cup plus 2 tablespoons grated fresh Parmesan cheese, divided

½ cup (2 ounces) shredded mozzarella cheese

¼ cup mayonnaise

1 garlic clove, pressed

1 egg white, lightly beaten

1 teaspoon Italian seasoning

 

1.      Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Combine chopped chicken, diced red bell pepper, snipped basil, ¼ cup of the parmesan cheese, mozzarella cheese, mayonnaise and pressed garlic in a bowl and mix well.
 
 
2.      Now prepare your dough for a crescent wreath or bistro twist and fill the dough with filling.
 
3.      Combine egg white and seasoning mix; lightly brush over dough. Sprinkle remaining Parmesan cheese over the dough. Bake following the directions for the crescent wreath or Bistro Twist.
 This is a finished Bistro Twist

Surviving Black Friday

My favorite day to go shopping is on "Black Friday", the day after Thanksgiving. I can usually get all of my Christmas shopping done on this day. I love the excitement that you can feel in the air and of course the fantastic deals. Nothing can clear your head better than standing outside in the cold winter air at 4 AM waiting for the doors to open. If you are thinking about shopping on this day here are a few tips to help you survive Black Friday.
  • Make your gift list and review your holiday budget. If you want more information on creating a holiday budget look here.
  • On Thanksgiving day, while the men are watching football, lay out all of the ads that came in the paper. If you don't get delivery you can pick up the paper at any gas station or grocery store.
  • Search for the best deals on the gifts you want and circle them or better yet, write it down and list the price and what store it's at.
  • Make a plan. Determine what store you want to go to first paying attention to the times they open.
  • I highly recommend getting a group together to go shopping. Divide and conquer. Have one person stand in the checkout line while the others do the shopping. Assign one person to go to electronics, another to toys, and another to clothing, etc.
  • Carry as little with you as possible. Take an ID and one credit card and a little cash and just put it your front pocket. The last thing you want is having your wallet stolen or misplacing your purse.
  • Be prepared to wait in long lines. That's why I recommend having someone wait in line while another does the shopping. Last year the line at Kohls was 2 hours long when my sister and I finally got in line. We didn't want to wait so we stashed our goodies under a table and came back an hour later when the lines were less.
  • Wal-mart price matches so if they carry a item that is advertised for less at another store and you don't want to drive all over to get your gifts, just take in the ad with the price and they will honor it.
  • Most Wal-mart stores are open 24 hours so you can get there in plenty of time. However, the sale items are wrapped in paper or plastic until the designated time. So, I go around and gather my price match items and then position myself by the pallet that has my number one item on it and wait.
  • Never ever leave your cart unattended. I made the mistake of turning my back on my cart for a minute and when I turned around I realized someone had taken one of the items out that was sold out. My daughter did not get her Cinderella Barbie that year.
  • Please be courteous of others and use good manners.
  • Have fun!

I will not be shopping on Black Friday this year because my husband is working that morning so please go out and seize the day for me. If you have any other tips please share them.

Thanksgiving Day Feast

We had an early Thanksgiving at my house this year. My parents were in town this last weekend and my husband will be working on Thanksgiving day so we figured we should have our feast early. Every family has their own traditions when it comes to what food is served. Some of these foods have been in the family for generations and others are some you create with your own family. Here is what we had:
The turkey is of course the staple, unless you are a vegetarian. Ours this year happened to be a wild turkey my husband managed to get for us. I have never prepared a turkey before and since my mother was in town, I still haven't. So, I unfortunatly can't give you any tips or advice on this. You can however look here to find out how to cook a perfect turkey.
 
It just wouldn't be Thanksgiving for my family without the Stove Top Stuffing. My Dad has never liked the taste of cornbread stuffing so growing up we always had Stove Top. My Mom would even prepare it when we were together with extended family and serve it right next to my Aunts homemade stuffing. I too prefer Stove Top so that is what we had. If you want to make homemade stuffing give this Southern Cornbread Stuffing a try.
 
I am not a fan of cranberry sauce but for some reason it just doesn't seem like Thanksgiving without it. My Mom loves the jellied kind so preparing it was as simple as opening a can and slicing it up. You can see a recipe for fresh cranberry sauce here.
 
With this meal we also had mashed potatoes and gravy, sweet potatoe casserole, rolls, fruit salad, and pumkin pie. I will provide the recipes for these in the following posts.
 
What are your favorite Thanksgiving day foods?
 
 

Christmas Lights

I know what you are thinking, it’s still November, why are you talking about Christmas lights. Well, I'm talking about Christmas lights because most people put up their holiday lights the day after Thanksgiving and if you have your lights all boxed up I suggest getting them out now and making sure they all work. Untangle those wires and check every bulb. Should you come across any shorted lines, missing bulbs, broken bulbs, or just want more lights (I personally think you can never have too many) then save some gas and do your shopping at The Christmas Light Source. I recently got some of the multi colored ice cube shaped LED Christmas lights for my son’s room. I got tired of the white plug in night light and wanted something a little more fun. The great things about these lights are:
  • They don't get hot to the touch like the incandescent ones so I don't have to worry about my children burning their little fingers.
  • They are also energy efficient so if I forget to unplug them (which happens often) they don't use up a ton of energy.
  • I also love how they have a hard plastic covering that won't shatter when, not if, they get stepped on.

Now, what do you do with your broken and old Christmas lights? You recycle them of course and The Christmas Light Source can help you do this. Recycling through the Christmas Light Source doesn't only help out the environment; it helps put books in the hands of children in need and saves you 10% on your next purchase. You can read about their Christmas light recycling program here.

 

Don't be left in the dark with broken or missing lights. Visit The Christmas Light Source and light up your house this Holiday season.

Creating a Holiday Budget

The best part of holiday shopping is picking out gifts for everyone on your list. The worst part is when January comes along with the bills and you realize you over spent. One way to avoid the worst part is to create and stick to a holiday budget.
Step 1: Create a budget book. Add lined paper, dividers, and a zipper pocket (pens and pencil pouch) to a 3 ring binder. The paper is for taking notes and keeping track of things. The dividers are to separate lists or budget years. The zipper pocket is to hold all of your receipts.
 
Step 2: List Expenses. Make a list of each person you need to buy a gift for. This includes family, friends, teachers, and co-workers. Don't forget to make a list of other holiday expenses like: greeting cards, gift wrap, decorations, baking supplies for cookie trays etc.
 
Step 3: Set Limits. Evaluate what you spent last year or estimate what you spent last year and determine where you need to cut back and where you need a little more. Maybe you went way overboard with the cookie trays but needed a little more money for gifts. Make adjustments where necessary and then place an amount on everything. For example, $5 for teacher gifts, $10 per co-worker, $20 per extended family member, $50 for decorations. Maybe this year you can cut back on the number of cards you send out and send e-cards instead. Many people throw away the cards after the season anyway.

 The most important thing is to do what is best for you. Don't compare your budget to someone else’s because everyone has different ideas and needs. Once you have your budget set make sure you keep track of everything you spend. You may go over on something but under on others. Make adjustments where necessary. Follow through with your budget to make sure there are no surprises come January.

Keeping Your Kids Safe on Halloween

 
If you plan on having your children go Trick-or-Treating then there are a few things you should do to keep your kids safe on Halloween.
  • Have children carry a flashlight so they can see in the dark
  • Put reflective clothing or a glowstick on your child so people can see them.
  • Remind them to walk and not run. Costumes can sometimes hinder their ability to move and running will only cause more problems.
  • Remind them to stay on sidewalks.
  • Have them only approach houses that are lit.
  • Know where child predators and sex offenders live by looking it up online and avoid those areas.
  • Take your child instead of having them go alone.
  • Don't let them eat candy until after you have inspected it.
  • Remove any candy that is not age appropriate like jaw breakers for young children.
  • Instruct them not to eat any candy that is not wrapped.
If you are expecting Trick-or-Treaters make sure your yard, driveway, and sidewalk are free from things that kids can trip or get injured on in all of the excitement. Have your porch light on. Place your pets in a quiet location (see previous post for what to do with your pets). Turn your porch light out to signal you are out of candy or not serving candy.
 
I hope you have a safe and happy Halloween!

Keeping Pets Safe on Halloween

Don't forget about your pets during the Halloween fun and festivities. I found this video about keeping pets safe on Halloween.  Aside from the helpful advice you get to see cute pets dressed up.

Halloween Party Idea

My husband and I were invited to a Halloween party last weekend but were unable to make it. After seeing all of the work the hostess' put into it I'm sad we weren't in attendance. Check out Life Frosting, the blog of one of the hostesses, and see all of the creative genius. It's too late for this year but it will give you a jump start for next years party. They had incredible names for all of the food like Torn Skin Crisps, Rabid Dog Froth, Brains and Beans and many, many more. So, if you are a party person check it out. This site also has many craft ideas too.
 
Did you attend/host any parties this year? Send me pics and I'll share them here.

Fun Halloween Recipes

If you are attending a Halloween party or hosting one you are going to need some good and fun recipes.  I do not have any signature recipes so here are some links to great websites that have yummy and fun Halloween Recipes.
 
 
Hope you have fun. I'm going to be making pumpking cupcakes today. I'll post a picture when I get them done.

What to do With all of that Halloween Candy

As a child I think Halloween was second to Christmas as my favorite holiday. It was so fun to dress up and go door to door and get free candy. What child wouldn't like to do this? I don't really remember my Mom and Dad limiting my candy consumption in any way. I always gave them a few pieces of their favorite candy, Mom- York Patties and Dad- Mr. Good bar. The chocolate was always the first to go and the last for me were the Sweet Tarts. I'm more of a sweet fan than a tart fan. I digress. What do you plan to do with all of that Halloween Candy your children are sure to bring home?

 

I am one who tires of hearing I want candy..... All day every day until it is gone. So, here is what I do.

 

I make sure my kids eat a healthy, normal dinner before they head out. While we trick or treat they can eat 2 pieces of candy (that I inspect first). Once we get home they get to go through their candy and share with mom and dad (my favorite part). If it is a school night they may eat a few more pieces and then it is off to bed. When it is not a school night, like this year, I let them eat to their hearts (and stomachs) content. The next day whatever is left gets put into a big bucket and the candy is then used as rewards for various things. I potty trained my son with his Halloween candy as the reward. I put the candy out of site with the hope of out of site out of mind. Sometimes there is enough candy leftover for Christmas stockings.

 

It is ultimately up to you the parent to decide how much and when your children get to eat their candy. There is one big thing you should do though to eliminate any whining and complaining about the rules you impose. Lay down the rules and make sure each child understands before they even head out the door.

 

What do you do with all of the candy? Do you let your children eat it whenever or do you ration it out?

 

And don't forget to turn off your porch light if you are not handing out candy, not home, or out of candy. This will keep trick-or-treaters from ringing your doorbell all night.